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Wandering Son episode 1

Was going to write about Fractale but the 360p ver­sion makes for miser­able view­ing and even worse screen­caps. Besides, I have a lot to say about Wan­der­ing Son and not all of it is pos­it­ive. Or should I say not all of it is neg­at­ive, I’m not sure which my read­ers were expect­ing more of.

Wan­der­ing Son is gentle. I call it ‘fluffy’. That doesn’t mean ‘fluff’ in the same way I would describe the likes of K-ON or Squid Girl, as in anime that hold no weight. ‘Fluffy’ is more the tone Wan­der­ing Son takes to it’s story telling. It’s almost like it’s afraid of hit­ting us with any­thing that might scare us away. Even the anim­a­tion style feels like the artists are afraid of put­ting too much weight into the draw­ings, which leaves some of the char­ac­ter designs with these odd gaps in their heads where the artist was almost too afraid to touch the page with his digital brush in fear the design might come off to harsh. The dia­logue is sim­pli­fied to the extreme, using incred­ibly simple phras­ing to con­vey highly com­plex emo­tions. The BGM is all tinkly piano music like it’s try­ing to soothe our poor hearts to a calmer land. There’s no humour. Humour might mean we’d stop tak­ing it ser­i­ously and jolt us out of fluffy dreamland.

This is what many people call beau­ti­ful. Wan­der­ing Son fans are one of the most picky and insec­ure bunch I’ve ever come across. Ter­ri­fied that any­one might mis­take their anime for any­thing other than the soft series that it is, they des­per­ately point out that this anime doesn’t play the trap card for laughs nor tit­il­la­tion. This is ser­i­ous! They’re also des­per­ate to point out that this is a drama and hard hit­ting stuff will come along. It’s not hard hit­ting though, is it guys? Come on. It will be as hard hit­ting as a styro­foam. It wants to stroke out hair and tell us it’s all OK. That we’re spe­cial and beau­ti­ful. I really don’t like this style of story-telling. It feels…damnit, what’s the word. Demean­ing? Wait I know, it’s pat­ron­ising. Don’t stroke me with the pro­ver­bial feather, I want the harsh sledge­ham­mer of storytelling. It’s annoy­ing but, far more import­antly, it’s bor­ing. I could be a harsh git here and sug­gest the reason anime fans like this sort of stuff is because they’re emo­tion­ally insec­ure and need cud­dling. In fact, I will sug­gest that. The reason anime fans like this sort of stuff is because they’re emo­tion­ally insec­ure and need cuddling.

I did say there would be pos­it­ives in this review though. While I made fun of the art style earlier and the char­ac­ters extremely shiny heads, I rather liked it. It was anim­ated smoothly, fits the style of show per­fectly and is cer­tainly ori­ginal, which I’ll always give extra marks for. There was a bit of explo­sion of char­ac­ters at the start, which made it dif­fi­cult to keep up who’s who, espe­cially when you weren’t sure what gender each char­ac­ter was. But I was able to get a grasp on some of the char­ac­ters and it did a remark­ably good job of get­ting across their char­ac­ter types. These cer­tainly aren’t ste­reo­typ­ical arche­types on show. By the end of the epis­ode I found I ‘got’ what made the lead two tick. One com­plaint I often have with sim­pli­fied dia­logue is it feels like a cop out for express­ing com­plex emo­tions (hello Cross Game). In Wan­der­ing Son it felt more like these kids didn’t under­stand their own emotions.

It’s just a gen­er­ally well made show that gets what it wants to be. It’s just what it wants to be is some­thing that grates me the wrong way with a grater made out of vanilla ice cream and pil­lows. I’m cer­tainly inter­ested in watch­ing more. I’d hate to think I’m the type of guy so stuck in his ways that he’s not open to pos­sibly enjoy­ing new genres. Maybe I need a cuddle too.

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41 Comments

  1. Posted January 13, 2011 at 11:24 pm | Permalink

    As for the anim­a­tion style, I believe AIC were try­ing to emu­late the water­color tanko­bon cov­ers from the manga:
    http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/4/4d/H%C5%8Dr%C5%8D_Musuko_characters.jpg/300px-H%C5%8Dr%C5%8D_Musuko_characters.jpg

    In any case, you don’t really seem to have a spe­cific prob­lem with the show. Was the atmo­sphere really that suf­foc­at­ing? I mean, how else could it have been por­trayed? You blame them for not under­stand­ing their own emo­tions, but wouldn’t it have been a total cop-out to have a bunch of kids who are just start­ing middle school to have all their ser­i­ous gender iden­tity issues straight? I’m not going to des­cend to the “it is what it is” argu­ment because that’s just stu­pid, but the way you seem to talk about the show it just seems that you wanted the epis­ode to be worse just for the sake of it being dif­fer­ent from what it was. And is hav­ing a par­tic­u­lar art style really a pre­cursor to a show being emo­tion­ally insubstantial?

    That being said, you could be right in the end :/ I’m just fan­boy­ing out cause I liked Aoi Hana :V

    • Scamp
      Posted January 13, 2011 at 11:31 pm | Permalink

      It needs to be harsher. I’m not say­ing they change the way the char­ac­ters are structered or any­thing, that’s actu­ally pretty good. It’s the way the soft­ness envel­ops everything that bores me. I get that they achieved exactly what they were going for though, and I cer­tainly enjoyed this a hell of a lot more than that snore fest Aoi Hana =P

      • Posted January 14, 2011 at 4:49 pm | Permalink

        I think the “tone” serves very well to deliver the con­tent in a man­ner that neither sen­sa­tion­al­izes or mar­gin­al­izes the char­ac­ters’ prob­lems. Too many shows take these sorts of issues ad use them as slap­stick humor or as an excuse to be need­lessly insult­ing. Your notion that the desires of the view­ers of the show to be emo­tion­ally cajoled and soothed over their prob­lems is ridicu­lous — I didn’t watch Code Geass in order to gain con­fid­ence in my abil­ity to sub­vert the author­ity of an empire. Maybe you’d like the show bet­ter if they star­ted call­ing each other fags and gay­fords. Heh, maybe I would, too :V

  2. Nanou
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:00 am | Permalink

    UTW is going to do Fractale with .ts by the way :]

  3. Chartfag
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:39 am | Permalink

    I’m one of the first to defend Hourou Musuko against people say­ing “herp derp traps”, but I wouldn’t say it’s “hard-hitting” or even that fluffy, though this anime might be.
    It just ambles on at a relax­ing pace and you end up more attached to the char­ac­ters than you real­ise. Actu­ally screw it, I don’t know why I really like it to be fair — i think it’s just a very good for­mula you get in many con­texts, but none of them have been par­tic­u­larly grabbing until this one (most for­get­table shojo fol­low sim­ilar styles), which any­one who’s found adoles­cent life awk­ward or lonely at some point will imme­di­ately relate to, even sans weird obses­sions. It gets to the point where a teen­age boy cud­dling a gigantic teddy seems natural.

    The thing i’ll praise this epis­ode for the most was the pres­ence of beau­ti­ful back­grounds, mostly because the manga rivals Bleach in its total absence of scenery, heh.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 10:51 am | Permalink

      I liked that teddy scene actu­ally. The guy was find­ing the upgrade to middle school scary and retreated to his child­hood by going back to his giant teddy. As I said, this show is fairly clever when it comes to dis­play­ing how these char­ac­ters feel

  4. Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:47 am | Permalink

    freaks.

  5. OHEMGEE
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:59 am | Permalink

    I’m off to watch this. didn’t real­ize it came out D:
    And the sound of an anime cud­dling with me and strok­ing my hair sounds godly…

    • OHEMGEE
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 5:50 pm | Permalink

      I watched it this morn­ing and I have to say– I did enjoy it. I guess that means I must be the tar­get audience.

      • Posted January 15, 2011 at 8:35 am | Permalink

        i must say that i’ve been star­ing at your avatar for days now and i’m in love with it. ciel ftw.

  6. Posted January 14, 2011 at 1:48 am | Permalink

    Of course its gentle. Usu­ally anime fea­tur­ing trans char­ac­ters depicts them in a man­ner which is dehu­man­iz­ing and cruel. And the people watch­ing this who can relate to the char­ac­ters are like­wise treated in a cruel, dehu­man­iz­ing man­ner in real life. So, yeah, its gentle, and in this case, no, this isn’t about mak­ing anime fans feel all com­for­ted and fuzzy, etc. Its about not mak­ing an already mar­gin­al­ized group of people feel even more ali­en­ated than they already do feel, about actu­ally depict­ing them in a real­istic manner.

    Hon­estly, if that’s your prob­lem with this show, then you should just drop it now, ’cause that’s the way the show is. If you want some­thing hard-hitting about trans people, then go watch Hed­wig and the Angry Inch instead.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 10:56 am | Permalink

      [shrug] at least you’re not telling me I don’t ‘get’ the show.

      Besides, it’s hardly that real­istic now. It’s too light. Obvi­ously hard hit­ting isn’t real­istic either, but this goes out the other side and becomes too soft in its depic­tion. In a way, it’s still ali­en­at­ing those people. It’s not present­ing them nor­mally, it’s present­ing them too softly. There’s the argu­ment that these people need the mes­sage to be presen­ted in a soft man­ner. The kids in the show need to be cuddled and told they’re beau­ti­ful etc. But I’m not that and it gets bor­ing to watch

  7. fathomlessblue
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 2:30 am | Permalink

    I kinda see where you’re com­ing from, the ‘fluffy­ness’ was slightly over­bear­ing, although noth­ing to stop me watch­ing. Still, at times it was like the visual equi­val­ent of being suf­foc­ated by a giant marsh­mal­low. It’s hard to explain as I actu­ally liked the style, but also found it distracting.

    Out of all the other shows this sea­son, Kimi ni Todoke is the closest match in pace and light­ness of the anim­a­tion, which is odd as I love both facets of that anime. I guess KnT appeals to my nos­tal­gic yearn­ings for more inno­cent times, so I find the style as a pos­it­ive addi­tion to that vibe; in Wan­der­ing Son’s case I can’t really relate to the char­ac­ters issues so the encom­pass gen­tle­ness grated a little.

    Again, I don’t really have the words to describe it. I liked the anim­a­tion, but not neces­sar­ily with this anime. I think the cud­dling vibe you describe feels about right; it was too much. It just dulled my empathy towards the char­ac­ters and me impa­tient for them to man up (no pun inten­ded) and grow some thicker skin, which is obvi­ously the oppos­ite inten­ded effect the series is going.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 10:58 am | Permalink

      Well I hate Kimi ni Todoke so heh~

      Wan­der­ing Son is cer­tainly the closest I’ve come to actu­ally enjoy­ing this type of show, des­pite the fact it goes fluf­fier than any other anime I’ve seen before. Or per­haps it’s because it goes fluffier.…

      No, that’s not it. I like it because it’s extremely good at dis­play­ing com­plex emo­tions in char­ac­ters who don’t under­stand these emo­tions themselves

  8. Posted January 14, 2011 at 3:06 am | Permalink

    Ser­i­ously Scamp. Dis­agree­ing with oth­ers over a show? never gonna blame you for dif­fer­ence in tastes. But attack­ing fans of a series? that’s low… that’s REALLY low >.>
    I could vomit some acid here, but at the moment I can’t respect you enough to bother spend­ing the time to =.=

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 11:00 am | Permalink

      Ah come on. This is hardly the first time I’ve attacked fans of a show. Naru­tards, moe fans, old­f­ags. It’s just sud­denly a big deal because the tar­get was the hyper-sensitive Wan­der­ing Son fans. Thanks for prov­ing my point

  9. CS
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 4:08 am | Permalink

    It was cuddly and fluffy and I want to eat it. ._.

  10. Posted January 14, 2011 at 5:03 am | Permalink

    Adachi’s weak­ness, you got it. It does get old.

    But this is much bet­ter, I agree!

  11. Posted January 14, 2011 at 8:20 am | Permalink

    well, yeah, the people who go through trans­sexual issues like this want to be cuddled. as they should be.

    i dis­agree in that the light and simple storytelling is try­ing to “pat­ron­ize” the audi­ence as you say. it’s just try­ing to cre­ate an atmo­sphere of “nor­mal­ity” and serenity where there is any­thing but those things in the hearts of the prot­ag­on­ists. i didn’t find any­thing com­fort­ing in the first epis­ode; if any­thing, the jux­ta­pos­i­tion unsettled me. then again, hav­ing read a bit of the manga, i have an idea where the story is headed.

    i don’t know what you mean by “harsher”. more people pick­ing on them? more break­downs and crises?

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:16 pm | Permalink

      Not harsher in actual con­tent. Harsher in tone. Which would obvi­ously go against the idea they have for this anime. Doesn’t mean I have to like it though

      • Posted January 15, 2011 at 7:51 am | Permalink

        i dunno, i think if they went harsher in tone they’d have a shoujo anime in their hands ;/ and it would be writ­ten by suenobu keiko.

  12. Posted January 14, 2011 at 8:58 am | Permalink

    The inter­est­ing thing about Hourou Musuko is that, unlike series that more often get cited in dis­cus­sions of “slice of life” (K-ON, Hidam­ari Sketch), it actu­ally IS a slice of life, in the proper sense. There is no con­crete plot to speak of, except that the kids just keep grow­ing, and the choices they make keep build­ing. And that in itself pos­sesses a kind of grav­ity, when you take into account whose lives we’re sli­cing into.

  13. electronicmaji
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 9:15 am | Permalink

    Series is hardly all cuddles and fluff. Mind you more of the dif­fi­cult issues were cut out of the series because of where it starts. There’s still going to be name call­ing. The PV already fea­tured one scene of Nit­orin being called a fag. The word used for “Sick” is also some­thing quite strong. There’s no real trans­la­tion for it, but it’s stronger than fag­got, stronger than freak, it’s like being called a fuck­ing dis­gust­ing inhu­mane piece of shit.

    Beau­ti­ful and fluffy art­work? Cer­tainly. There’s a beauty to it’s sim­pli­city. Is it going to cuddle and pet you? Cer­tainly not once any­thing major has occured. Cer­tainly not once Saorin has star­ted to become viol­ent and even more dis­turbed and angry as we’ve seen in the PVs for the next epis­ode. Cer­tainly not once cer­tain other plot devel­op­ments occur that involve the dis­gust with Nit­orin by half his fam­ily. Cer­tainly not once adult post-op trans­sexual meets with her other post op friends and starts tallk­ing about the people who have been murdered because of their transexuality…

    You’re mis­con­stru­ing pretty art­work with a pretty storyline. And while the concept here may be so, the things the char­ac­ters go through will most likely not be.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:19 pm | Permalink

      No no no no no!

      Dam­nit, I’m not talk­ing about the actual con­tent when I say fluffy and gentle. It’s the tone the series takes towards it. I know ser­i­ous stuff hap­pens down the line. I’ve read the fans of the manga shout that time after time. But it won’t be presen­ted harshly. It will be presen­ted in the same soft tone this epis­ode was presen­ted in

  14. electronicmaji
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 9:16 am | Permalink

    Also of course the kids don’t under­stand their own emo­tions. They’re kids. That’s kind of the point of half the concept of the series.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:20 pm | Permalink

      –_– and I said that was a good thing.

      Read the post properly

  15. Posted January 14, 2011 at 9:21 am | Permalink

    There’s no humour.”

    Really? There were a few blatant (and nicely timed) moments of com­edy in this episode.

    The BGM is all tinkly piano music”

    I’m not sure Debussy would be too happy to hear Clair de Lune described as “tinkly piano music”, so I hope you weren’t refer­ring to that part of the soundtrack. :D

    I have to say, I really don’t under­stand where this per­ceived need to be “harsher” stems from either — was nobody upset or emo­tion­ally hurt dur­ing the course of this epis­ode? Was nobody left feel­ing isol­ated, mis­un­der­stood or embar­rassed at any point? You’re right, this isn’t School Days or Uta~Kata, but that’s kind of the idea — most people’s lives aren’t filled with fist fights, murder and dark­ness, even if you’re intern­ally strug­gling to ration­al­ise your gender and pubes­cent emotions.

    If you’re look­ing for in your face story-telling, then really Wan­der­ing Son was never going to be the place to look for it, and espe­cially not in its first episode.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:23 pm | Permalink

      OK actu­ally there was a nice bit of humour with the kids at school when the glasses guy tried to get a reac­tion out of the other kid who kept grunt­ing all his answers. That was clever

      Again though, I’m not talk­ing about the plot depict­ing harsher actions. What it’s doing there is fine. It’s the way they present emo­tional dis­tress in such a gentle way that rubs me the wrong way

      • Posted January 14, 2011 at 1:01 pm | Permalink

        I also got a laugh out of the friend of Shuichi’s sis­ter snap­ping a pic on her phone of him, com­plete with a dead­pan expres­sion, after going on about how cute he is.

        I don’t really see there’s any­thing “gentle” about the way any of the emo­tional dis­tress is handled in this epis­ode — if someone calls you out on who your girl­friend was at school or the like, it doesn’t send you into some kind of rage or a long mono­logue, espe­cially if you’re a shy kid like Nitori — instead, you keep quiet and inter­n­al­ise the fact that it’s upset you.

        Sim­il­arly, there’s noth­ing gentle at all about Nitori flee­ing the house after being caught wear­ing his sister’s stuff, or the sib­ling fight that pre­cedes it, while the fact that they make up in short order after that hap­pens is just what broth­ers and sis­ters tend to do.

        I think that’s why I’m strug­gling with your opin­ion on the show’s nar­rat­ive — I simply can’t ima­gine this epis­ode hav­ing been any dif­fer­ent without resort­ing to exactly the kind of melo­dra­matic extremes which ruin a lot of other series.

      • Taka
        Posted January 14, 2011 at 11:00 pm | Permalink

        I agree with Han­ners. The show handles the dra­matic aspects in a real­istic man­ner. I felt the sis­ter and brother made up so quickly was because this was the first time that he had phys­ic­ally retali­ated against her des­pite the fact he had appar­ently been caught cross-dressing before. It’s the first time she real­izes that it was some­thing import­ant to him and not just some game or a way to piss her off.

        Also, kinda a dick in this post. People like it when you hate on bad anime not good anime.

  16. CS
    Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:22 pm | Permalink

    The fact your tak­ing your time and answer­ing all these com­ments makes you a god among men. I wish you sir a good day.

    • Scamp
      Posted January 14, 2011 at 12:25 pm | Permalink

      Now you’re mak­ing me feel bad for not answer­ing com­ments on some of my other posts.…

      This post is rather inflam­mat­ory though, so those will­ing to com­ment deserve a reply

  17. Posted January 14, 2011 at 2:43 pm | Permalink

    tinkly piano music”
    .…. :<

    Screw that, Scamp, you just don’t like fluffy art­work. Remem­ber, this is not Kimi ni Todoke.

  18. ocswing
    Posted January 15, 2011 at 3:19 am | Permalink

    Hmm, you might know some­thing I don’t since I’ve not read the manga, but I’m just not sure I under­stand your point of view on this one. Maybe you’re just mak­ing assump­tions. While I can see it being a “fluffy” show in present­a­tion I just don’t think that it’s going to con­tinue that way.

    The inter­ac­tions here that had weight were all with people who seem­ingly knew about Nitori’s pref­er­ences. If what happened in this epis­ode had been presen­ted in a harsher light than it would’ve just played off as cheap melo­drama and teen angst I think. I thought it was handled well, and had glimpses that it will get heav­ier in tone and present­a­tion later in the series. Though I’m already wor­ried about the noitim­ina epis­ode limit. Freak­ing Kur­age­hime ending!

  19. Elysium
    Posted January 15, 2011 at 8:16 am | Permalink

    I hon­estly love the col­or­ing here. It’s my inspir­a­tion now.

  20. Franny
    Posted January 15, 2011 at 11:32 am | Permalink

    I loved this show. The art-style is gor­geous, and I really felt a deep con­nec­tion with the char­ac­ters (if only because I’ve always been a bit of a tom­boy, but not quite so much to have trans-gender issues). The only thing I’m hat­ing so far is the kid’s voice actor. Talk about over-acting… that’s just my opin­ion anyway. ^^;

    • Franny
      Posted January 15, 2011 at 11:33 am | Permalink

      Oh and by ‘kid’ I mean the boy. xD

  21. Posted January 16, 2011 at 8:42 pm | Permalink

    I’ve said this in a couple of other places, but hell, might as well repeat it here. The light­ness of the visual present­a­tion actu­ally enhances the drama, I think, by present­ing a con­trast to the story and themes. There’s this pristine, beau­ti­ful world, and it’s inhab­ited by these con­fused kids. From the view­point of the world itself, it’s as if everything about it is “cor­rect” except for them. At least that’s how the first epis­ode made me feel. It didn’t really give me a “there, there” feel­ing, though I could see where that would come from.

  22. Posted January 23, 2011 at 6:14 am | Permalink

    I think I am going to skip writ­ing about Wan­der­ing Son. Try­ing to talk about the issue of being the issue of trans­sexual in gen­eral is ridicu­lous, and I already know if I say any­thing but glow­ing phrase, I’ll have pissed off com­menter, and I’m not in the mood to deal with it.

    Yes, they ser­i­ously suf­fer and things need to change, but many of them are also overly sens­it­ive to the point of giv­ing them­selves a bad name. I’ve seen a group gather about how their own true allies are the ones that know their vocab, and any­one who wants to truely help them should take the time to learn their language–which rivals the ridicu­lous vocab of feminism.

    And in truth, other mar­gin­al­ized groups suf­fer as much as they do. And it doesn’t do to bite the hand that feeds you…

    I prob­ably sound intol­er­ant. I just feel trapped in a no-win situ­ation. I either lie, or get flamed for being mean to trans people.

    • Alex
      Posted January 24, 2011 at 9:26 am | Permalink

      Wow. You are basic­ally say­ing “yeah, being trans­gender is really tough… but they need to get over it because I’m sick of hear­ing about it.” Fur­ther­more, it’s abso­lutely true that any­one who calls them­selves a trans ally should “know the vocab.”

      I assume all that really means is some­thing incred­ibly basic like the dif­fer­ence between, say, “trans­sexual” and “trans­vest­ite.” In other words, things I was taught the first day of my trans­gender iden­tit­ies class. If a per­son couldn’t even be bothered to do that, they could hardly call them­selves an ally.

      As for “bit­ing the hand that feeds you”, what does that even mean? Sounds like you think that any­one who falls out­side the “norm­at­ive” gender cat­egor­ies and has the gall to men­tion it (and lets face it, 99% of the time you’d never know because it’s usu­ally nobody else’s busi­ness) is some kind of self-pitying, self-entitled jerk.

      So yes, you do sound intol­er­ant. And no, it’s not because you don’t think Wan­der­ing Son is the best anime since sliced bread. For instance, Scamp man­aged to cri­ti­cize the show and I never once felt that he had any­thing against trans­gender people.

      Dis­claimer: I am not trans, and not a trans ally, just someone who thought your com­ment was ridicu­lous. I have no opin­ion on this show yet and I’m sorry for going off on an irrel­ev­ant tan­gent ages after the ori­ginal post. My only rel­ev­ant thought is that you (Scamp) must’ve really dis­liked Aria.

      • Posted January 24, 2011 at 10:46 pm | Permalink

        That’s not how I really feel. I don’t have a prob­lem with trans­gendered people in gen­eral. If I did, my rela­tion­ship would be in BIG trouble.

        What I dis­like is the atti­tude the com­munity advert­ises, as it’s just plain…difficult. When I talked about vocab, I talk about going fur­ther, such as “cis” and using of dif­fer­ing pro­nouns such as “zie” (I don’t know if that’s still what they used). I once tried to keep up. It’s really hard. And now that I’m in col­lege, I just don’t have time. They have the right to use whatever bath­room they feel com­fort­able in, and to treated as a equal, and I will go out and write that they deserve that write and fight for that the right, but my life­style doesn’t allow me for me to have the time to keep up with the vocab. People who aren’t as wired into the inter­net may feel that trans people should have equal rights, but no idea this vocab exists.

        And then to see a major­ity of trans people say, “If you don’t know the vocab, we don’t want you to help us get rights.” I’ll be blunt. It’s kinda stings. And makes me regret want­ing to fight for their rights, until I remem­ber that my mor­al­ity is such that I think every­one deserves equal right.

        To make it more dif­fi­cult, many mem­bers com­munity is very sens­it­ive and aggress­ive. Scamp cri­ti­cized the show, and STILL got accused of being intol­er­ant and not under­stand­ing the plight of trans­sexu­als. Without being able to have an open forum, pro­gress is hard.

        I’m very very con­flic­ted. I don’t wish to go into my boyfriend’s situ­ation, but it pains me to see him struggle with what he wants to do and who he wants to be vs. fear out of how soci­ety will respond, and I want to change. But the com­munity has made it clear that they don’t want people like me or him. I don’t know how to feel.

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